Bullying and taking sides

The Hardest Part of Being an H&S Professional

There’s a part of health and safety work that no one warns you about. Not the legislation. Not the paperwork. Not the risk assessments.

  • It’s the people.
  • The politics.
  • The power.
  • The bullying.

And the moment you step into an H&S role, you’re no longer just managing hazards – you’re navigating human behaviour at its best and its worst.

What do you do when you are bullied?

It happens more than people admit. You raise a concern. You challenge a decision. You ask a hard question. You hold a boundary.

And suddenly you’re:

  • Frozen out
  • Talked over
  • Undermined
  • Mocked
  • Excluded
  • Targeted

People who bully often feel completely justified. They believe they’re right. They believe they’re protecting the business. They believe you’re the problem.

But being on the receiving end is crushing. It chips away at your confidence, your sense of worth, your enjoyment of work. And yet – you’re still expected to protect others.

What do you do when you witness someone else being bullied?

This is where the real test begins. Do you:

  • Look away?
  • Pretend you didn’t see it?
  • Tell yourself it’s “not your place”?
  • Hope someone else will step in?

Or do you step forward? Because the truth is simple: If you stay silent, the system wins. And the system is what allows bullying to thrive.

What do you do when someone comes to you for help?

When someone trusts you enough to say:

  • “I’m being targeted.”
  • “I’m scared.”
  • “I don’t know what to do.”
  • “I feel worthless.”
  • “I don’t want to come to work anymore.”

You’re holding something fragile. Something human. Something that could break. And you have to decide:

Will you stand with them – even if it puts you in the firing line?

Speaking truth to power is not glamorous – it’s costly

Standing up for someone who’s being bullied is not a heroic movie moment.

  • It’s uncomfortable.
  • It’s risky.
  • It can make you unpopular.
  • It can get you labelled “difficult”.
  • It can get you removed from the favourites list.
  • It can jeopardise your future in that company.

But what’s the alternative? Watching someone be crushed by a system that protects the powerful and sacrifices the vulnerable?

In a country with some of the highest suicide rates in the OECD, pretending bullying is “just part of work” is not an option.

Which side should you take?

There’s only one answer:

The side of the person being harmed.

Not because it’s easy. Not because it’s safe. But because it’s right. And because everyone deserves a workplace where they are:

  • Safe
  • Valued
  • Heard
  • Respected
  • Protected

No matter their role. No matter their personality. No matter their status.

Bullying is a system failure – not an interpersonal disagreement

People who bully often believe they’re justified.

  • They think they’re correcting behaviour.
  • They think they’re enforcing standards.
  • They think they’re “managing performance”.

But bullying is not management. It’s not leadership. It’s not accountability.

It’s harm. And harm is a health and safety issue.

If you have leverage, use it in the service of others

H&S professionals sit in a unique position. We see things others don’t. We hear things others won’t. We understand the human cost of silence. And that gives us leverage – not power over people, but responsibility for people.

Prevention is always better than cure. And sometimes prevention looks like:

  • Calling out behaviour
  • Naming the pattern
  • Supporting the target
  • Challenging the system
  • Documenting the facts
  • Escalating when needed
  • Standing firm even when it’s uncomfortable

Courage is contagious

When one person stands up, others feel braver. When one person speaks truth, others feel less alone. When one person refuses to tolerate bullying, the culture shifts.

And that’s what H&S is ultimately about creating workplaces where people can show up as humans – not targets.

In the end, the question is simple:

  • What kind of professional do you want to be?
  • What kind of human do you want to be?
  • And what kind of workplace will you help create?

Because silence protects the bully. Speaking up protects the future.


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